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Tuesday, October 30, 2012
Anonymous Guest-Post: One Small Step
Monday, October 29, 2012
Different Opinions on Women Underrepresentation in Physics
Friday, October 26, 2012
AASWomen for October 26, 2012
Issue of October 26, 2012
eds. Caroline Simpson, Michele Montgomery, Daryl Haggard, and Nick Murphy
This week's issues:
1. What Male And Female Scientists Say About Women In Science
3. Support for a Working Mom with Facebook
4. Yet Another Invitation to Speak at a Career-Family Panel...
5. ScienceGrrl Calendar launched
6. Scholarly Publishing's Gender Gap
7. NRC Report on Women in Science
8. Opportunities for Undergrad and Grad Women in Physics
10. How to Submit to the AASWomen Newsletter
11. How to Subscribe or Unsubscribe to the AASWomen Newsletter
Wednesday, October 24, 2012
The Part-Time Scientist
Tuesday, October 23, 2012
Guest Post: Eliza Kempton on Support for a Working Mom with Facebook
A couple of weeks ago, the reality of being a working mom finally hit home. I started in a tenure track position this fall at a fabulous liberal arts school. My students are amazing. My colleagues are friendly and supportive. The institution provides a million avenues for mentoring, teaching support, and research support. I’ve never been so busy in my entire life, but I love my new job. I am also a new mom. I am lucky to have a rather laid-back daughter... but she is still so little. She is growing very fast, and if you blink, you miss her taking on a new milestone or doing something funny that we’ve never seen her do before. I swear, each week she seems like she’s an entirely new person.
Like any working parent, I struggle with balancing work and parenting, but the pressure on women can be so much more severe because of the pressure that society puts on us and the pressure that we put on ourselves to “do it all”. This really hit home recently, when I faced my first day of not being at home to put my daughter to bed. We had a dinner at work and a weekend retreat to kick off a grant that we just received to support our intermediate-level science students as they make the bridge from freshman-level courses into the more vigorous upper levels of their majors. It is something that I am deeply interested in, and I knew I wanted to attend the weekend events. But on Friday night, as I mulled over the realization walking home that I had not seen my daughter at all that day, and I was going to spend half of Saturday (usually my only real non-work day to hang out with my family) at the retreat, I started feeling sad and guilty. I knew I wanted to attend the rest of the retreat on Saturday, but I also felt that I should be... no, I *wanted* to be... at home with my daughter! Ah, the conundrum of trying to have it all.
I did what any social-networking saavy woman in the 21st century would do. I reached out to my friends on facebook. My post, and the many supportive responses I received from friends and colleagues, are below:
Monday, October 22, 2012
Yet Another Invitation to Speak at a Career-Family Panel...
On that particular evening, after the kids had finally agreed to go to sleep, my wife and I were each checking in on the emails that had poured in during the 5-8pm window. "Another invitation for us to speak about work and family" she said. But then she furrowed her brow and didn't look enthused. "What's up?" I asked.
Over the past couple years, we have participated in many of these opportunities to speak with younger researchers who are on the academic path but wondering about how to navigate it with family. I guess we are a natural fit for such panels: My wife is a double-board-certified MD with a full-time research career, and I am professor of astronomy, and we have young children.
So, what was my wife's worry about the invitation? Our concern is that these invitations are (almost) always from women-in-science groups and the audience is (usually) overwhelmingly women.
(Let me first be clear on a couple issues: First, we love doing this, and are delighted to speak to exactly these audiences, and so please invite us for more! Second, what I'm about to say pertains to hetero couples, but I certainly don't want to imply that this is the only family model!)
OK, so what we would REALLY love is to receive such invitations from groups with a heavy participation from men, particularly given that men are still the significant majority in our field even at the graduate student and postdoc levels. Postdoctoral associations, graduate student associations, a Friday 4pm chat... I don't have an easy answer, but surely there is a way to have these sorts of discussions with our students and postdocs as part of their professional development, just as we hold journal clubs and workshops on grant-writing and speaking, and not leave this to be arranged by women-in-science groups. I would love to be approached by a group of men-in-science who are excited about the future but worried about their ability to balance family and work!
Our feeling (and what we try to convey at such panels) is that in the present climate you really can have both a family and a stimulating research career. The key is that your partner must be exactly that! If you are going to have a partner and the partner is a man, then it is essential that he views this as his issue every bit as much as yours. There are many men out there who have lots of advice, both about the practical issues as well as the broader challenges. However, until we create a mechanism for these discussions to include most of the junior men in our field (and ultimately instill a sense of co-ownership among men of this issue), we will likely continue to stumble on the same problems that have plagued us in the past.
I would love to read in the comments examples for work-family events that could engage (or have engaged) a larger number of the junior men in our field.

