A recent case in point was highlighted here, where a candidate was given a tenure track offer, and when she tried to negotiate, the offer was withdrawn. Now, granted, this was in philosophy rather than astronomy, but it's still pretty alarming.
There's been a bunch of internet chatter about whether or not she should have negotiated to begin with or whether she did it the right way or the wrong way on Slate, Forbes, and even the New York Times. And if you read the comments on the Inside Higher Ed post (pro-tip: never read the comments) several people condemn the negotiator as being "a difficult colleague" or "delusional."
This just illustrates the double bind women face in negotiation. Always negotiate, we are told. Because we don't negotiate, we have lower starting salaries than our male peers, which compounds over the course of our careers. Don't negotiate like a girl. On the other hand, if we negotiate too forcefully (i.e. like a man), we can face retribution.
Now, there is plenty of good advice out there on strategies for negotiation. The trouble is, none of this addresses the underlying problem that both men and women treat women negotiators more poorly than men. As Amanda Hess says in Slate, maybe we should be asking the employers to be less sexist when negotiating with women instead.
Some of the articles assert that because the candidate (W) is a woman, her requests would have been better received by the institution had she phrased them in a more feminine manner.
ReplyDeleteIt looks like these writers would have much preferred the style shown in the first draft letter shown on the "Don't Negotiate Like A Girl" website over the list of requests that the candidate sent. Ironically, on the "Don't Negotiate Like a Girl" website, the blogger poses the first letter as an example of ineffective negotiating and instead recommends a revised version. The revised version is much more along the lines of the letter that W actually sent to the college, the letter that prompted the college to rescind their job offer.
Anonymous: That's exactly the problem. Which advice should we follow? To negotiate more assertively, or less? Would W have been better off not trying to negotiate at all? It sometimes seems like if we do try to negotiate, we'll be punished for it. But if we don't, we won't get what we want/need, either.
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