tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post4341823100468725680..comments2024-03-25T10:22:36.277-04:00Comments on Women In Astronomy: Postdoc-hood & InfertilityAmanpreet Kaurhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08734178178113146899noreply@blogger.comBlogger8125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-65626315263485432802015-04-08T03:09:30.580-04:002015-04-08T03:09:30.580-04:00Such a brave woman you are I follow these kind of ...Such a brave woman you are I follow these kind of ladies who can give a path to others. <a href="http://clinicbychoice.com/Fertility/Ivf-Treatment/india/punjab/" rel="nofollow">Infertility fight spirit</a>.<br />sumita raonoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-70595977708722852622013-11-07T07:31:23.779-05:002013-11-07T07:31:23.779-05:00My husband and I were planning to have a baby from...<br />My husband and I were planning to have a baby from quite sometime. After trying for several months, I got disappointed and frustrated with the failures. Then I came to know of this <a href="http://newbornbaby.com.au/getting-pregnant/planning-for-pregnancy/fertility-calculator/" rel="nofollow">fertility calender</a>, which surprised me as I learnt that there is only a short period in the menstrual cycle in which a lady has highest chances of concieving. I followed it religiously and it worked wonders for me as now I have my baby girl beside me. It worked perfectly for me and hope it does the same for everyone who is trying to get pregnant.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10171723834124059761noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-67710103927928553252013-10-11T10:08:30.519-04:002013-10-11T10:08:30.519-04:00My wife was pregnant by talking clomid 50mg, I pu...My wife was pregnant by talking clomid 50mg, I <a href="http://www.pharmacy-international-direct.com/clomid-clomiphene.php" rel="nofollow">purchase clomid online</a> because my doctor was prescribed for my wife, it’s really very effective medicine. she got pregnant with fraternal child during the first month of taking it. She had a great pregnancy, a vaginal birth and now we have one very healthy seven month old baby boys.<br />ThanksAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-19277555997648955792013-09-04T10:47:13.779-04:002013-09-04T10:47:13.779-04:00You and your mate should help each other through t...You and your mate should help each other through this time and definitely not blame each other for your difficulty getting pregnant.If you need any help about <a href="http://www.wfcct.com/" rel="nofollow">IVF Treatment CT</a> visit this siteJohn Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12100503522721198425noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-56971653707972357742013-08-30T05:38:03.403-04:002013-08-30T05:38:03.403-04:00Hats off to you for sharing your experience and i...Hats off to you for sharing your experience and it will surely give courage to other <a href="http://www.ramasofathospital.com/infertility-main" rel="nofollow">infertility</a> suffering women to fight for it.Karamhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15127998962655629640noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-24986344231153797022013-08-29T16:02:32.656-04:002013-08-29T16:02:32.656-04:00Jessica--
You are very brave to be so open about ...Jessica--<br /><br />You are very brave to be so open about your experiences; by doing so, you are probably helping countless women who are going through similar experiences. I have been through a similar experience and chose to keep it mostly to myself (it's just how I'm built; plus I'm not terribly brave!). <br /><br />Because you know that adoption is an option for you, my only advice (having gotten to the other side) is to do what you're already doing: focus on the fact that you will have a family. Someone will fall into your life just the way they are supposed to.<br /><br />I'm a mom, now, and hoping for a second; it is worth everything you are going through.<br /><br />Good luck with the IVF. <br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-2979068926149882032013-08-23T16:35:31.963-04:002013-08-23T16:35:31.963-04:00I had my babies 24 and 21 years ago. I felt alone ...I had my babies 24 and 21 years ago. I felt alone and ignored in my department (3 women academics out of 40). I am horrified to read that young women still feel that they will harm their career if they talk about their family dreams in the workplace. Actually, in my (generally) friendly collegiate field (exoplanets), I can't imagine that is a problem with colleagues. But I can imagine that there are still many departments around the world (sad to say, maybe more in the Anglo world) where this is a problem. I wish you all the tranquility you deserve. Stress is our main enemy - I know it was for me but I managed to produce two angels in the end...Rosemary Mardlingnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6374266320411149509.post-32868229864262236602013-08-20T12:01:37.631-04:002013-08-20T12:01:37.631-04:00Fertility is a very sensitive topic at the work pl...Fertility is a very sensitive topic at the work place. When I was in graduate school, classmates (who have become life long close friends) were willing to talk about it and we kept it among ourselves. However, once I move onto postdoc, fertility becomes a topic that nobody wants to talk about, mainly that's personal choice. Regardless you are a male or female, being a father/mother might draw discrimination at the work place, such as being shuffled to a less important project. While this has never happened to me, I don't want to take any chance for hurting my career. Thus, I prefer to keep it private to avoid any speculation. <br /><br />I can see that you are trying to seek for support. I doubt that it would be a chat group within astronomy community. As I mentioned earlier, it is a very sensitive topic at the work place. As you might have known that astronomy is small world. People most likely do not want to talk about the infertility problem openly. If you want a chat group within astronomy community, then one has to create it and let people post anonymously (or with nickname). <br /><br />I have participated in different types of forum, fertility, parenting, lifestyle etc. It has helped me in adjusting my new life as a postdoc in a different country. I would suggest that you find a fertility/infertility forum in your country of residence, introduce yourself there and talk about it. You can provide as much information as you would like. Almost all of them are females. This is probably because they are more willing to talk about fertility/infertility/parenting. Trust me, these strangers are very supportive. They don't judge. Based on my experience, people on the fertility/parenting forums have never said anything hurtful in contrast to general topic forums. Strange enough, it works for me by talking to these strangers. In the end, they aren't strangers anymore. We form a bond to help each other along the way. I would rather talking about some of the issues with a stranger, who actually went through the same thing, than to a family or a friend, who can't understand. <br /><br />P.S. If you want me to point you to the right forum, let me know where you reside, I'll send in couple of suggestions. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com